What behavior is right and what behavior is wrong when seeing a live piece of theater? For many, theater is a longstanding tradition where certain rules are followed and certain courtesies are expected. For others, attending a live production may be new territory and they will rightfully wonder what is expected. Most theatre etiquette is common sense, but that doesn’t mean people do not have questions. Here are some of the most asked questions about theatre etiquette and suggestions for how to best prepare for a night at the theatre.
Is there a dress code for Broadway?
While there no specific rules on what clothing to wear, the most common attire for the theatre would be smart casual. We’d recommend anything from a nice pair of jeans or slacks with a button-up or blouse to a suit and dress. You should also take into consideration things like weather (and note that some theatres might be a bit chilly). The vibe is really up to you! It’s a special occasion and can be fun to treat it as such by dressing up for the event.
When should I arrive at the theatre?
It usually makes sense to arrive at the theatre at least 20 minutes before the start time on your ticket. It will give you time to navigate the lines, find your seat, use the restroom, and read through your Playbill. In terms of proper etiquette, make sure you are seated before the lights go down. Some theatres will not seat latecomers at all while others will wait for a suitable break in the performance before guiding you to your seat. This is to ensure that the cast and other patrons are not disrupted during a live performance. There is no rewind button in theatre; arrive on time so you can get the full Broadway experience!
If you arrive late to your show, seating will be at the discretion of the box office.
How do I find my seat?
In order to enter the theatre, you’ll have a ticket which will also have your seat information. The usher that scans your ticket will direct you towards your section. Additional ushers will be throughout the theatre, and are prepared to help make sure there’s no trouble finding your seat. If you have any seating questions, you can always ask the usher. The orchestra section is usually on the downstairs level while the mezzanine, dress circle, or balcony seating sections are on the upstairs levels.
Can I get up from my seat during the performance?
Technically speaking, yes, you can get up from your seat during the performance. However, please note that getting up from your seat will likely cause a disturbance to those around you, especially if you are seated towards the middle of row. That being said, we really only recommend getting out of your seat if it is absolutely necessary. Otherwise, we suggest waiting until intermission or the end of the performance. Once you leave your section and enter the lobby, ushers may not let you back to your seat until there is a break in the performance. This varies from show to show.
When is it acceptable to use my cell phone at the theatre?
As many shows will remind you shortly before the performance begins, cell phones should be turned off and put away during the performance. Audience members are there to enjoy the show on stage, a cell phone ringing during a crucial plot point can damper the experience for you and your fellow patrons. Feel free to check your phone before and after the show, as well as during intermission, but make sure it is silenced and put away while the show is happening.
May I talk during the performance?
Unless there is some sort of audience participation component to the play or musical you are seeing, talking should be kept at a bare minimum. Conversations are distracting to both the performers and your fellow audience members. Theater is a shared experience and you should always be courteous to your fellow patrons.
May I eat snacks during the performance?
Each theatre has its own set of rules. Most will allow you to bring in concessions purchased at the theatre with you back to your seat, some may not. If enjoying a snack, it is best to unwrap your candies or other treats before the performance begins as to limit any noises.
May I sing along at a musical if I know the songs?
However lovely your voice may be, unless there is a sing-along built into the show, save your vocal cords and just enjoy the performers who are singing it for you.
How do I know when the performance is over?
At the end of every show is a curtain call. Generally, the cast members whose performances you’ve just enjoyed will come out to take a final bow. This often results in a standing ovation, meaning audiences will rise to their feet to applaud the production’s company. Stick around to clap along, and sometimes, depending on the show, there may even be an extra song to end the show. Once the lights come up over the audience, it’s time to head out.
How can I get a performer’s autograph?
While there is no autograph experience included with your ticket, many performers enjoy taking some time with fans and, if schedules permit, they will linger for 10 or 15 minutes to sign programs or pose for pictures at the stage door. This will vary by productions and certain shows may not partake in stage door experience, so you may ask an usher for any information regarding the stage door location and availability.
Theater etiquette is 99 percent common sense and just requires a little empathy and consideration. If you are ever confused about what to do or how to behave, take a look around at what others are doing. In general, most theatergoers are seasoned in the proper decorum of enjoying a live performance and can steer you in the right direction.
If you have any further questions, feel free to reach out to us here.